Dear Meimei,
We, probably, the most inconsiderate parents of all.
Dragged you out from your comfort zone,
took you up to a flight in the middle of the night for so called vacation,
not to mention we mixed up your routine for the rest of the week.
You were barely 9 months old.
We thought you are an outgoing babe and eager to see the world as much as your jiejie does.We thought we did the most planning and checking to reduce the impact of the change on you.
We thought more holding and cuddling will soothe your crankiness.
We really prepared beforehand.
But it was far more tricky than we thought.
You become fussy, clingy, grouchy;You developed separation anxiety, you wailed whenever I moved away from you, slightly though.
You saw an opportunity to test mama's boundary.
Mama became mazy, gloomy, numbly.
You were so much persistent than your jiejie in term of testing mama's limit.
I could not remember whether you became easier to handle, or I gave in more and more.
So long I was beside you, you will behave much better.
So long you were not stuck in the car seat and being transported from 1 place to another for too long, you will be more cheery.
You gazed intently to jolly jiejie, to the breezy beach, to the freely birds.
You gurgled, cooed and babbled when you are in good state. "jiejie" was slipping out from your mouth once or twice.
You attempted to crawl forward, but somehow backwards which equally amazed us as we know this is a step closer to your next milestone.
Not forgetting that, your upper central incisor started to pop out from your gum.
It was a sticky business to bring you on a trip... we survived.
It's part of the parenthood, we know.
And we think we should not stop here.
We probably should start travelling to Malaysia more often to orientate you,
As Daddy believes that you will be an exciting little traveller,
just like your sister.
"Huh? We are not done?!!"