That's why she gets the name as "Bomber" from me, and only me.
The true is, I have my bias toward my the other child, knowing she is the very last source of babyhood joy I would snuggle with, day and night. She has a magical charm when she looks at me in my arm, you see. Perhaps because of that, I take things more loosely, I tolerant her mischievous, I don't yell at the mess or the meltdown she created, well... maybe there was once (or twice). I am willing to take longer time to persuade her to achieve my goal of feeding or get out from the bathtub or anything. Is it because I am a mother for second time? Or it is because I am no more 24/7 with her, so I am giving more leeway in my parenting to her.
One thing for sure is that she has been teaching me many lessons about parenting, and being a better person.
Happy (belated) Birthday, Darling.
Life will sure fascinating with you around;).
She draws her energy from you. Stop that before you are totally drained out! On how to stop? I also dunno hahaha~ Sorry, maybe look for Mary Kurcinka?
ReplyDeleteI will look for you instead!
DeleteHappy belated Bomber, cute nickname you gave her :)
ReplyDeleteActually, I like it too heeehehee... and thanks for the wish:)
DeleteMe is opposite. I tolerate very well (read BIAS) towards my 1st born. Everything he does seems okay, and I hardly shouted at him. But for my girl, my second and almost certainly, the last one, I have no patient, I shouted and I screamed at her, and everything she does is just not right :-P The different with yours is, everyone agrees with me that my 2nd one is more difficult to handle, haha
ReplyDeleteHappy belated birthday to Bomber!
There is always a story to tell about kid. Perhaps your XY has a reason for behaving that, just 'listen' carefully...
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